In an abusive relationship?
If the scumbag beats you, get the hell out and never look back. He WILL do it again. Most of you will say "I know" but most of you won't get out until it's too friggin' late. There are millions of men out there, why put up with this MoFo. Get yourself together, make yourself worth dating and go back out there. Just think, you spend a few years with this guy thinking he will change or he will not do it again. And one day, he smacks you upside the head for some stupid reason and it's on baby. You fire back at him and it pisses him off even more and he really lets you have it. Now, you finally say to yourself, he will not stop, I need to get the hell out. Here's the sad reality if you can handle the truth. When you first got with this scumbag, you were young and hot. A few years have past and you are older and not so hot. You are now worth less in the dating market. The next dude you get with is likely to not have as cute or as successful as the first guy. If you don't smarten up and end up dating another ahole for another few years, you have just devalued yourself even more. I see good/hot women do this all the friggin' time. Stop reading all those gargage magazines and TV shows and start learning about men and about relationships. Relationships are similar to wars. How can you defeat your enemy if you don't know what they are thinking. Keep your friends close but keep your enemies even closer. I'm not saying treat your man like an enemy but you know what I mean.

Perhaps you are in an abusive relationship and you are pretty much stuck and have no where to go. What do you do? First thing is to tell someone that cares about you. You never know, they may have some suggestions for you. Two heads are better than one. Be very careful who you tell, it might back fire on you if you happen to tell the wrong person. If you want to call the police, block your phone number until you feel safe to disclose your number. Cops work in funny ways and I don't know what the law is but common sense tells me that I would not disclose any info that they can use to track me down. If your life is seriously threaten, by all means, bring in the swat team already.

Another thing you can do is start preparing yourself so you can be on your own. Start stashing away some money. Save enough to support you for at least 6 months. If 6 months is too much, 3 months is good too. Get some education so you can get a decent job. I find that a lot of women that are in abusive relationships are not marketable. They are either not good looking, old or uneducated. This explains why the man have so much power over you. Either spouse having too much power over the other is never a good thing. Make yourself marketable, you have to do it if you want to get out. If you can move in with your friends or family for a while, DO IT.

Ladies, god all mighty. Why do you guys put yourself into such a bad place? All those countless hours you waste at the mall, chatting with your buddies on the phone, watching TV, and reading glamor magazines to name of few. You are pissing your life away while your man is out earning a decent living. If you rely so much on a man to put food in your mouth and a roof over your head, don't be suprise when one day he decides to excerise his power. If you are young and hot, you've got a way out. If you are old and uneducated, you are up the creek without a paddle. All those years of living off a man will bite you in the ass. You guys are just as smart as we are if you just APPLY yourself.

Many of you think you have the magic vagina. If it is that magical, he wouldn't beat you. You think you can get what you want with that magic vagina. When the chit hit the fan, you will see how unmagical your vagina is. Men are weak but we are not that weak. If your man is the sole bread winner, he's got you by the balls sort of speak. Ladies, listen to me Please. Love and Vagina don't pay the friggin' bills. Your man knows this. It sickens me to see how women spend their time. It's no wonder why men earn a lot more money. MAKE YOURSELF MARKETABLE FOR CHRISSAKE!!!