Compromise = Misery
A small amount is reasonable but too much of it will
destroy a relationship. We humans absolutely hate to
be changed. We love to do things our way. When we hook
up with someone, they love to change us to suit their
needs and wants. Too much compromising is why most relationships
fail. Figure out your likes and dislikes before you
start getting into a serious relationship. Once you
have figured it out, stick to it. Do not compromise
just because she is hot or he is rich. Most people don't
take relationships serious enough to learn more about
it. Stop and think about the amount time and effort
a person puts into chasing and maintaining relationships.
If you have made a list of your needs and wants, make
damn sure you follow your game plan. It will back fire
on you when you start ignoring your list. If the both
of you are truly right for each other, neither one of
you should have to make too many compromises. If you
have to turn your life upside down, you are with the
wrong person. Most people will say it is common sense
but you will be suprised how many people can't do it.
Most people are extremely WEAK! |
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