Is she putting on a show or
is she for real?
A lot of women will go out of their way to please you
at the beginning of the relationship. Time will tell.
Give it enough time, she will expose her real self.
How much time is needed depends on how good she is and
how rich you are. If you are rich and she is good, she
can put on an act for a long ass time. She will do it
as long as necessary for you to marry her. Then wham,
she got your ass. If she is not very good at faking
it, her real self will start showing in as little as
3 months. Be realisitc with your expectations. You can't
expect a person to perform at their peak all the time.
You need to figure out if she over extended herself
and for what reason. If for example she used to cook
you three meals a day for the first 6 months and now
you can't even get her to cook you a single meal, she
was totally faking it. If she is for real, she would
still cook you at least 1 or 2 meals a day. This is
just an example. You can usually tell when someone is
doing things for you out of the kindness of their heart
or they are putting on a show. Like the saying goes,
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and
all of the people some of the time, but you can not
fool all of the people all of the time" -Abraham Lincoln.
Always remember this, "Action speaks louder than words".
Ignore it when she throws that word "Love" at you. Especially
is she does it excessively. That is also a sign of insecurity,
that's another topic. If she sex you up like you have
never been sexed before and then all of a sudden you
have to give yourself HJ's, beware, this chick is either
not into you or she is not into sex. These are just
smoke screens to cloud your judgement. Being a man,
I know how weak we can get when we are faced with a
beautiful woman. You will fail at first but keep practicing.
Don't fall for smoke and mirrors. Women can be just
as cold blooded as men so be cautious. |
