How to spot a gold digger/big
spender.
If you are looking for a keeper, someone to have a family
with. The overall message I'm trying to convey is, pay
close attention to how she spends her money. A big spender
could also mean a gold digger. Simple, if they love
to spend, find out where the money is coming from. Does
she have a high paying job? Most likely not. Are her
parents rich and just gives her what she wants? Most
likely not. She has a crap load of credit cards and
she is racking them up one by one to pay for her lavish
lifestyle, this is the most likely scenario. She is
covered from head to toe with designer (name brand)
clothes. Carries expensive purses. Pay close attention
to the brand of the purse and how many of those she
has. Most women have a crap load of purses. I understand
the need to a few purses to match their different outfits.
10 to 15 should be plenty but if she has 25 to 50+ purses
in her arsenal, watch out boys. If you date or marry
this chick, you WILL be paying for those damn purses.
Just Trust Me! The brand of purse most women carry is
Coach. It is not too expensive and will do for the average
woman. When they venture out to the more expensive brands,
slow down and start paying attention. The bad thing
about fashion is that you sort of have to pay for designer
looks. The more expensive stuff do generally look better.
Women needs to look good to attract a man so I understand
the need to spend a little on fashion. Example; If she
mainly shop at stores like American Eagle, you are pretty
safe as long as she doesn't over spend and buy every
new piece that comes out. Is she mainly shop at stores
like Abercrombie & Fitch, run for the hills my man.
You Will be paying for those overpriced clothes when
her money runs out. There are so many different brands
out there so I can't cover them all but you get the
idea. How much is her V worth to you?
Same with shoes. Women love them shoes boy. For a "decent"
looking woman to have 20 to 30 pairs of shoes is quite
normal these days. The hotter the chick, the more shoes
she will likely have. Same on the reverse. The concept
is the same for shoes as it is for purses. If you forget
already, read that section again. Drill it into your
head. It will come natural after a while.
She drives an expensive car. Your average young hot
chick makes 15K to 35K a year. If her car far exceeds
her income, beware. Did her mommy and daddy buy it for
her? Did she snatch it from one of her ex? Snatching
cars from ex boyfriends/husbands is a bad sign. History
does repeat itself. Did she put down very little and
finance her life away to drive this car? If so, you
are dealing with a chick that is not money smart. Here
is a reality check. In the sociaty that we live in,
there is no need for a woman to drive an expensive car.
Men can care less about how expensive her car is. Men
only care about what they look like. So when you have
a chick that over spends on her car, you are potentially
dealing with a gold digger/big spender. In her mind,
an expensive car will help her attract a more successful
guy. Wrong. It doesn't work like that, I'm sorry to
say. It usually back fires. Here's the fun part. Truly
successful guys don't care about what car she drives,
he only cares about what she looks like. The loser guy
on the other hand does care about what car she drives.
The loser is looking for a free lunch from a rich chick.
If he is hot enough, he can get her in the sack. If
she is dumb and weak, she will fall for it. She will
end up paying for all his stuff. Over time, she will
figure it out and feel stupid. Nice cars does not work
for women as it does for men. Sorry ladies, you just
over spent on a car and now you are stuck making the
payments. Some do it for status. If status means that
much to you, by all means, go for it. This bad economy
can use a few more dummies like you.
The main thing to keep in mind is "You Will Be Paying
When Her Money Runs Out" or even before that. You have
to sit back for a minute and decide how much she is
worth to you. Is the sex that good? How long will you
be lusting over her if you plan on marrying this chick.
How much do you know about yourself. Like the saying
goes, "Show me a hot woman and I'll show you a guy who
is tired of F-ing her". Are you one of these guys? If
you are, Do Not marry a high maintenace chick or you
will pay dearly "when" you get a divorce. If you are
hot for this chick, just date her and that's it. Why
buy when you can lease. Most chicks that are into high
fashion are likely to be pretty hot so I feel you brother.
Remember, lease, don't buy. Leasing = Dating. Buy =
Marrying. Don't get the two mixed up. |
